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10 Biggest Problems with Normal Toddler Toys

Every toddler parent has experienced this: You buy a cool toy, surprise your toddler with it, and watch as your toddler plays with the box more than the toy. It's so lame! Or is it?


Toddler toys come in a vast array of designs, price points, and development focuses, but toddlers may quickly move on to something else. Many toddler toys struggle to keep toddlers engaged, so knowing the common pitfalls to avoid may help save parents some money.


Learning a bit about your toddler's brain and development track can help you choose more age-appropriate toys that actually fascinate your tiny tot for longer. So much happens in these short years, but you can save quite a bit by educating yourself before marketing influences your buying choices.


1. Toddlers Lose Interest in New Toys Quickly

One of the most ridiculous things about birthday gifts, Christmas presents, or any random toy gifts given to my toddlers is the hours of fun they had with the boxes compared to the time they spent playing with the toys. What gives?


Toddlers' imaginations are running wild with possibilities, exploration, experiments, and "what ifs." Knowing that, it follows that toddler toys designed for one focus or purpose are too restrictive for tiny tot creativity.


For example, toys and dolls themed by your toddler's favorite TV show already have a set storyline, voice, personality, and world from that TV show. So, when your little one plays with them, it's not as creative as it could be.


On the other hand, a big cardboard box has so many possibilities! It can be a 3D coloring project, be styled as a house, become a spaceship, a tunnel into a more extensive fort, or anything else your toddler can dream of. After a few days, you can then cut it down into shapes for stacking or swords for whacking.


2. Tons of Plastic

Plastic is a handy and diverse material that costs relatively little compared to more sturdy materials like silicone or wood. It's a no-brainer for toy manufacturers! However, plastic is easy to break, terrible for the environment, and makes a "cheap" sensory experience.


Like babies, toddlers are still exploring the world around them with their senses. The richer and more varied sensory experiences they have at their fingertips, the better they learn and the more engaged they become.


Sensory play benefits toddlers' language skills, fine and gross motor skills, and cognitive development (source). So, doing our best as parents to provide multiple different textures and materials in our toddlers' toy sets is a powerful way to help our little ones develop and stay interested.


Learn more about toddlers and sensory play in Are Toddlers Too Old for Sensory Toys?


3. Lack of Creativity

Classic toys like shape sorters, pull-along toys, and busy boards are similar. They are fantastic for briefly entertaining certain skills but will not hold your toddler's attention like mud, water, flour, paint, bubble wrap, wooden blocks, or stacking cups.


These toys (and normal life things) encourage open-ended play (i.e., creative play). The only boundaries are parental rules and your little one's imagination!


Sure, this can seem limiting to some, but you'll be amazed at how many hours of fun toddlers get from a pile of dirt and a trowel compared to the newest toddler STEM toy. Open-ended toys are critical to keeping your little one engaged!


4. Too Many Choices

Oddly enough, having too many choices in what to play with can shut some toddlers down. The overwhelming feeling of being surrounded by possible playtime choices can shift your little one's mood from "I'm ready to play" to "I'm not content with anything."


Some toddlers are excellent at picking something and sticking with it, ignoring everything else around them. But others don't fixate on one thing, so their train of thought or playing gets interrupted by the possibilities of another toy that catches their eye.


When this happens often in a short time, a toddler can understandably be upset! Does this sound familiar? It definitely happens to me some days.


Researchers have studied whether having many or few toys is better, and they found that having more toys reduces a toddler's quality of play.


In fact, toddlers with four toys played more deeply and imaginatively with each toy for longer periods, while those with sixteen choices were distracted and bounced to different toys quickly (source).


Having too many choices in toys or the number of pieces in a toy set is one of the big problems I faced with my first two toddlers. In this case, it certainly seems that less is more!


5. Lack of Social Play

Toddlers need to play with other kids and other toddlers to learn those all-too-necessary social skills. Sharing, communicating, making up games, following rules, and imaginatively playing are best understood when playing with others.

Young children playing with educational toys

Yet, how many toddler toys in the store aisles are designed with multiple young players in mind? Not many. This is where open-ended toys like blocks, cardboard boxes, mud, and such are ingenious: they can engage one or more toddlers at play!


Play is essential for helping toddlers develop socially, linguistically, cognitively, and physically. In The Power of Play in Speech Development: Best Activities for Toddlers, we explore how play helps build language skills.


6. Quickly Outgrown

Another issue many parents complain about for toddler toys is how quickly their little ones outgrow them. For example, toy kitchen sets are expensive and immersive toddler toy sets, but you'll only get around three years of play from them (if you're lucky).


You can squeeze more value from your dollar from one nice toddler kitchen set if you have more kids, but that's only if your other kids like them. I've learned from having my own kids that I cannot bank on kids enjoying the same things. Each one is unique!


7. Parent Required for Interest

Some toys and activities are a bit too complicated for a toddler to play with alone, but sometimes that isn't the problem. Your toddler may be bored with a toy until you sit down with them to play with it.


There are so many reasons this could be the case:

  • You make the toy more fun.

  • Your toddler craves more time with you.

  • The toy is a little too difficult for your toddler to play with alone.

  • Your toddler wants to be social at that moment.

  • The toy is boring without other players.

Whatever your toddler's reasoning for asking you to play with the toy, it may not be a problem with the toy unless you notice that your toddler hardly ever plays with it alone.


Sure, it could be that your toddler has associated that toy with playing with you, but it may also be a genuine lack of interest in the toy itself.


Whenever I've noticed my toddlers coming to me with a particular toy that they don't play with on their own, I put it in a bin for a few months later. Sometimes, those toys become popular playtime picks when I reintroduce them, which means they were probably too difficult before.


But sometimes, those toys are still ignored or require me to make them interesting. Whether you keep those toys for special playtimes or get rid of them is up to you.


I have more fun letting my kids take the lead in playing with open-ended toys like blocks than playing with a toy they don't feel confident playing freely with. If I have to teach them how to play it and lead the rest of the game, it doesn't seem to be as fun!


8. Annoying for Parents

Do you have a sibling who makes it a personal goal to find the most obnoxious toy for your kids just to drive you crazy? I have two siblings like this, and they compete with each other every Christmas to outdo the other one in ridiculous gifts for my kids. I'm loved.


My biggest takeaway from this bothersome competition is that my toddlers are not entertained by those wacky electronics for long. Sure, they have a blast for the first couple of hours, but they rarely play with them afterward.


Besides, those plastic toys tend to break quickly, so they don't last more than a couple of months, but I am thankful my littles are not that interested. I would be in a real pickle if my siblings found obnoxious toddler-proof toys!


However, I've noticed that the toddler toy aisles in many stores are stocked with annoyingly loud or flashy toys. Believe it or not, toddlers are just as enthralled--if not even more satisfied--with open-ended toys without batteries.


9. Unsafe for Younger Siblings

As I added to my family, I noticed with horror how many of my firstborn's toys were dangerous for my infants. I wasn't prepared to separate my oldest's toys into "baby safe" and "baby is napping" bins, but that is what I ended up doing.

A variety of childrens toys in bins

Most toddlers' open-ended toys are totally fine around a baby, but my oldest got into Legos, marble tracks, and coloring heavily around three years old. Since my second was crawling and cruising by then, those smaller items were not safe, and I couldn't expect my toddler to keep the baby's safety in mind.


Thankfully, my firstborn soon decided that playing with baby-safe toys and activities with the baby was more fun than playing alone, so I was able to put the tiniest things away for a few months.


Baby toys and products come with their own problems. You can read more about those and how to avoid common issues here: 10 Biggest Struggles with Normal Baby Products.


10. High Cost-Per-Use

Toddler toys are expensive, especially if you invest in durable toys made with quality materials. At this stage, your toddler's brain is still developing rapidly, and mood swings affect what your little one fixates on and for how long.


All that development means that the toys you purchase for early toddlerhood may not be very entertaining in later toddlerhood.


So, when you spend a decent chunk of change on that neat Montessori-inspired busy board, it becomes frustrating to realize that your toddler may completely ignore it after about a year.


There are a few ways you can make your dollar stretch further with toddler toys:

  • Buy open-ended toys that are interesting throughout toddlerhood and preschool.

  • Buy toys secondhand.

  • Swap toys now and then with other toddler parents.

  • Rotate toys that your toddler can reach every month or two.

  • Create an activity or game to play with toys your little one doesn't seem as interested in.

Also, don't be afraid to go with fewer toys and more household items, outdoor things, and daily life entertainment.


A pile of dirt, cups in a bucket of water, rocks, leaves, mud, cardboard boxes, kitchen pots, and many other normal life things hold just as many playtime development opportunities as the most cleverly designed toddler toy.


Common Problems with Toddler Products


Toys are not the only thing toddler parents complain about; clothes, travel cups, and dishes also cause plenty of complaints. Toddlers outgrow their clothes quickly, so though your little one's clothes are labeled 2T and 3T, you will still feel like you are buying more clothes every few months.

A young toddler girl sits at a wooden table.

Travel cups are also infinitely frustrating because toddlers find more creative ways to bust their cups, bite through straws, or otherwise cause "spill-proof" cups to leak. One quick option is to opt for cups made fully from silicone, which is bite, toss, chuck, drop, and dishwasher-resistant.


Toddlers can learn to use normal dishes, but having a set of toddler-proof dishes is fantastic when your attention is divided between multiple kids. Again, opting for the more expensive but super durable and versatile silicone dishes will ultimately give you less worry and more bang for your buck.


In a Nutshell


Toddlers' rapid development is astounding, and it's all parents can do to simply keep up with them. Since playing is essential to their development, choosing toys that entertain and train toddlers for longer than a couple of hours total is vital.


Besides, parents can save significantly financially and spatially at home by purchasing quality, open-ended toys and making full use of regular objects inside and outside. What is your toddler's favorite toy?

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